You need to read this.  You probably will want to quit reading it half-way through because it’s a tale of sorrow and it will fill your mommy heart with a deep and heartwrenching sadness, but you’ve got to finish because the question Ann Voskamp offers at the end is essential to our journey in life.  And no, you can’t just skip to the end…to truly understand the question, you’ve got to read her entire story.  It’s probably going to hurt, but growing usually does.