Our lives are just one long string of choices.
This ability to make choices rules us. It starts the minute our feet hit the floor in the morning and it continues until we drift off to sleep each night.
Every decision defines us. It shapes our souls and breathes life into our priorities.
Some choices are easier to make. Some are so difficult we find ourselves on our knees asking for guidance.
Some are permanent. Others allow forgiveness and a second chance.
Some are thoughtless. Some are habit driven. Ingrained in our heads to the point where we don’t even really think that we’re making a choice.
Some of them we make not realizing their effect on us until it’s too late to choose otherwise.
The word choice by definition means “an act of selecting or making a decision when faced with two or more possibilities” which means there’s always something we’re NOT choosing when we make a choice.
The choice to work a little later rather than bow out a bit early to watch the sun set. The choice to check our phone again rather than engage in a conversation with the people sitting right there in front of us. The choice to multi-task rather than focusing on this moment…this conversation…this person. The choice to commit to too much rather than choosing one thing and soaking up all its glory. The choice to do rather than to be. The choice to worry about the future rather than to live in this moment.
I think of all the choices I’ve made. All the moments I’ve chosen things over people. All the moments I’ve chosen complex over simple. All the moments I’ve chosen not to listen, not to do, not to accept. All the moments I’ve chosen worry over contentment. And I know that those choices haven’t necessarily been the difficult ones nor have they all been the permanent ones. Instead I like to think they’ve become my teaching ones. The choices that make me feel empty or scared or sad or overwhelmed…those are the choices that give me a glimpse of what I don’t want my life to feel like.
And so I choose to make each decision a little more consciously. It’s about making life-affirming, people-loving, simple-living, world-appreciating choices. And it’s done with gratitude and openness and intention. Because when we choose with intention, we choose consciously. We choose what we want our life to say.
So today I choose to live with every intention. I choose the people right here with me. I choose joy and gratitude. I choose simple. I choose contentment. I choose glory in the beauty that comes naturally.
And you? Whatever you choose, let your choices reflect your intentions.